Hey, Mari! You haven't been unresponsive at all, it's not that! I guess we just balance differently, and it's made a difference to my stress levels and crankiness to take a definitive step back. I realise I coulda just dropped off the face of the earth quietly, but I wanted to let people know that it wasn't fandom, it was me ;) And, thanks for everything! I will totally email you if necessary <333